Special Bonds

There are some things in life you just cannot predict, for example, earlier this evening I watched a film called The Bride Wars, and the film ended with a quote that went like this:

'Sometimes in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. Maybe you will find it in a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding. But there's also the chance that the one person you can count on for a lifetime, the one person who knows you sometimes better than you know yourself is the same person who's been standing beside you all along'.

 This ending sentence got me thinking, you never know for sure who will stand by you through everything, I know that my family will, but some people don't even have the comfort of knowing that.

In terms of relationships how can you be sure that the one person you feel you share a special everlasting bond with, won't leave you, and break that special bond. So many people who think they have found that special someone who they'll spend the rest of their lifes with get married and then divorced.

Many people experience heartbreak and rejection but in my opinion you need to experience negativity and whats wrong in a relationship so you can understand and appreciate when something is right when it eventually comes along and when it does you'll compare it to all the bad experiences and realise what you have now is something perfect, something special to be treasured.

My advice, don't ever settle for someone that makes you cry too often, that isn't how a relationship should be, I was once naive in thinking that as long as theres love it doesn't matter how much they hurt you, truth is if they loved you they wouldn't hurt you, because hurting you would hurt them. This is why I hate the lyrics to the song 'Love the way you lie' so much, because no one likes being lied to, they just put up with it because they think they love them and they don't know any better. You want to know how I know this? Because I've experienced the negative, and through experiencing this, I know that what I have now is more than just right, it's special, and whether it's is a bond that cannot be broken or not, I know that I am going to enjoy and make the most of what I have because these are memories that I will be keeping hold of no matter what.