It has been two and a bit weeks since my last blog post where I wrote about how me and Tom broke up, it was difficult for both of us as none of us wanted it. Tom kept talking to me which made it harder, and after the second attempt of suggesting to him that we have no communication for a couple of days, he agreed to it, and it worked, we had three days of not talking, and he realised that the doubts weren't with 'us' and that he did miss me.
We both thought that things would take a while to get back to normal, but they really haven't taken a while at all, things were back to normal if not better straight away, and thats what I love about us, we never argue, nothing is a struggle, yes there is a problem with distance but that isn't a problem with us as a couple.
I can see why he was scared, I'm scared too, it is getting serious. I've only had one relationship before, it lasted four and a half years but in terms of how well the relationship worked it was nothing compared to how well me and Tom work together so I guess the fact that we are working so well is obviously a very good thing but it can also be a bit scary because I don't think I've ever felt this content with someone before, I'm not sure why that should be scary, I know what I'm thinking I just can't put it into words.
Call me soppy, but I'm just speaking the truth, this is probably the most happiest I've been with life in general. My confidence has grown so much.
"Pour a little salt, we were never here" (the lyrics from Skinny Love) - It was a bad time for us but it really does feel like it never happened, time heals as they say.
Overall things are amazing at the moment, the sun is shining I had a great day with friends last weekend and things are generally looking up!!
We both thought that things would take a while to get back to normal, but they really haven't taken a while at all, things were back to normal if not better straight away, and thats what I love about us, we never argue, nothing is a struggle, yes there is a problem with distance but that isn't a problem with us as a couple.
I can see why he was scared, I'm scared too, it is getting serious. I've only had one relationship before, it lasted four and a half years but in terms of how well the relationship worked it was nothing compared to how well me and Tom work together so I guess the fact that we are working so well is obviously a very good thing but it can also be a bit scary because I don't think I've ever felt this content with someone before, I'm not sure why that should be scary, I know what I'm thinking I just can't put it into words.
Call me soppy, but I'm just speaking the truth, this is probably the most happiest I've been with life in general. My confidence has grown so much.
"Pour a little salt, we were never here" (the lyrics from Skinny Love) - It was a bad time for us but it really does feel like it never happened, time heals as they say.
Overall things are amazing at the moment, the sun is shining I had a great day with friends last weekend and things are generally looking up!!
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