Sometimes it Lasts in Love but Sometimes it Hurts Instead.

I think I speak for everyone who has ever loved and been hurt when I say that I cried whilst listening to this song. It is such a powerful song expressing the feelings of many.
 It brought back alot of feelings I had buried a while ago, not only that but it made me feel scared about having to feel that pain again.

If there are people who do not understand why someone would cry at this, then I'm guessing they have never been in love and I guess in some ways thats lucky as if they've never loved they'll never have to go through the pain of being hurt.

If you know me, or if you've read my blog from the start you'll know what I went through, I thought I'd never be able to let anyone else in, but with time I did and I couldn't be happier. I met Tom a month after things went wrong and at first, I did really like him, but I couldn't open up and let him in completely, I guess when you've loved someone else for so long its hard to fully accept anyone else to begin with. Obviously I had feelings for him, I would never be with someone if I felt nothing, but I was scared to feel more so to begin with I tried distancing myself. Seven months on and I have never been happier or never had anyone treat me as nice as he does.

The moral of this blog is that although you may feel that you'll never be able to love again, or nothing else will be as special, thats far from the truth. In fact the next person you fall in love with will be even more special, because even though you've been hurt, your putting your trust into this person, which trust me, after having your trust destroyed, is the hardest thing you can do and to be able to trust someone else means alot.

 If its meant to be it will work, if its never meant to be then it won't work. Wherever you end up and whoever you end up spending your life with, its fate because in the end your just living the life that was already set out for you ♥

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger ...